The 90-Day Audit

Let's Get Honest

This is not a quiz. It is a coaching exercise. Answer like you are sitting across the table from me at 4 AM. No one sees this but you.

What's your first name?

Which area do you most need to audit right now?

Pick the one that's been nagging you. The one where you know you've been slipping.

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Business

Revenue, focus, priorities, execution

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Leadership

Team, ownership, decisions, standards

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Family

Presence, boundaries, connection, time

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Health & Habits

Energy, discipline, routines, resilience

The Look Back

Think back 90 days ago. Where were you?

What was your #1 priority or goal 90 days ago?

Be specific. Not "grow my business." What exactly were you trying to accomplish?

Did you hit it?

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Yes, I hit it or exceeded it

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Partially. Made progress but fell short.

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No. Not even close.

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I honestly forgot about it until just now.

What got in the way?

Be honest. Not "I was busy." What specifically derailed you?

"Most people don't fail from lack of effort. They fail from lack of focus. The busiest person in the room is not winning. They're hiding."

The Honesty Check

Check every statement that was true for you in the last 90 days. No judgment. Just data.

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I had more than 3 priorities at the same time

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I started my mornings reactively (email, notifications, social media)

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I said yes to things I should have said no to

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I avoided a hard conversation I knew I needed to have

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I broke a personal commitment or standard more than once

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I picked up my phone during family time or focused work more than I'd admit

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My sleep, exercise, or nutrition slipped for more than 2 weeks

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I made decisions while hungry, angry, lonely, or tired

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I did work that someone else should have owned

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I blamed external factors instead of taking full ownership

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I chased a "shiny object" (new idea, new tool, new offer) instead of doubling down

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I felt busy every day but couldn't point to what actually moved the needle

"Awareness is not the finish line. But you can't fix what you won't look at."

Deep Dive

Now let's go deeper into your focus area.

The Standard Check

Standards are the personal rules that make discipline automatic. Let's see where yours stand.

Do you have written personal standards you follow daily?

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Yes, written and I review them regularly

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I have some in my head, but nothing written

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No. I've been running on willpower.

Do you have a Trust Tribe? (3-5 people who know your standards and hold you accountable)

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Yes, and we check in regularly

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I have people, but we don't hold each other accountable

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No. I'm doing this alone.

What is the one standard you keep breaking? The promise to yourself you can't seem to keep.

"You don't rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your standards. Show me your standards and habits, and I'll show you your future."

The Next 90 Days

You've looked back. Now let's look forward. This is where the Reset Plan gets built.

If the next 90 days go perfectly, what is the ONE outcome that would change everything?

Not five things. One thing. The domino that knocks everything else down.

What will you STOP doing in the next 90 days?

What will you START doing every single day?

How confident are you that you'll actually follow through without any external accountability?

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Not at all100% certain

"If you could do it alone, you would have done it already. The gap between where you are and where you want to be is not more information. It's accountability."

Your 90-Day Reset Plan